THEY SAY PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT. WELL I'M FAR FROM BEING PERFECT, BUT I WILL SAY THAT WITH EACH PREGNANCY I FEEL I HAVE GAINED MORE WISDOM WHICH MADE ME FEEL A LITTLE BIT CLOSER. ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSONS I HAVE RECENTLY LEARNED IS THAT MOTHERS HAVE MORE CONTROL OVER THE FUTURES AND THE DESTINIES OF OUR CHILDREN THAN WE ARE AWARE OF.
I SEE THAT WE TAKE SO MUCH FOR GRANTED AND ARE OFTEN CHILDLIKE WHEN IT COMES TO THE SERIOUSNESS OF PROCREATION AND CHILD REARING. SAY FOR INSTANCE YOU DECIDED TO MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE OR EVEN OVERSEAS. TO MAKE SUCH A MAJOR TRANSITION, YOU MUST FIRST PREPARE. LIFE ITSELF IS A JOURNEY AND THERE IS A SCIENCE TO MAKING IT THE BEST JOURNEY POSSIBLE. EVERYTHING FROM HOW AND WHERE WE ARE CONCEIVED, TO THE DAY AND TIME WE ARE BORN, AND EVEN THE NAME WE ARE GIVEN AT BIRTH WILL ALL HAVE AN EFFECT ON OUR FUTURE. AS A MOTHER AND A LIFE JOURNEY COUNSELOR, I HAVE LEARNED THIS VERY LESSON SEVERAL TIMES.
DURING A SESSION A CLIENT DESCRIBED HER LIFE AS BEING VERY, VERY TRAUMATIC. FROM HER EARLY YEARS TO HER CURRENT LATE 60s, THIS WOMAN HAD EXPERIENCED MORE TRAGEDIES THAN I COULD EVER TRY TO RECITE. UPON STUDYING HER CHART, I REALIZED THAT ALTHOUGH THE MEANING OF HER NAME WAS PLEASANT THE NUMERICAL EQUATION OF IT ADDED UP TO A LIFE OF TRAGEDY AND MISERY. IT WAS AMAZING, HAD HER MOTHER GIVEN HER A DIFFERENT NAME HOW DIFFERENT HER LIFE WOULD HAVE BEEN. OF COURSE SHE COULD NEVER ERASE THE OCCURRENCES OF HER PAST, BUT I ASKED IF SHE WOULD CONSIDER CHANGING HER NAME TO PREVENT FUTURE TRAGEDIES.
BIRTH DATES ALSO HAVE MAJOR INFLUENCES. MY 10TH CHILD WAS DUE ON FEB. 5TH. I DECIDED TO DO A BIRTH CHART FOR THAT DAY TO SEE WHAT TYPE OF ENERGY HE WOULD BE BORN UNDER. I WAS NOT VERY HAPPY WITH THE OUTCOME OF THAT CHART BECAUSE OF HOW THE PLANETS ALIGNED ON THAT DAY IN OUR AREA, IT WOULD CAUSE MAJOR INSECURITIES AND UNHAPPINESS. SO I MADE CHARTS FOR SEVERAL DAYS BEFORE AND AFTER THE 5TH. I FOUND THAT I LIKED THE 3RD TO MOST. NEXT I WENT INTO MEDITATION, I TALKED TO THE BABY ABOUT THAT DAY AND MY INTENTIONS. I GUESS HE AGREED, HE WAS BORN ON THE 3RD.
ANOTHER THING WE SHOULD BE CONSCIOUS OF IS THE TYPE OF ENERGY WE SUBJECT OURSELVES TO WHILE WE ARE NURTURING NEW LIFE INSIDE. FROM THE MUSIC WE LISTEN TO, THE BOOKS WE READ, THE MOVIES WE WATCH, TO THE COMPANY WE KEEP, THEY ALL EMIT ENERGY THAT CAN HAVE MAJOR INFLUENCES ON OUR UNBORN KINGS AND QUEENS. QUEEN JIN OF CHINA AND HITLER'S MOTHER WERE BOTH VERY CONSCIOUS OF THIS. THEY BOTH USED THIS WISDOM TO INFLUENCE THEIR UNBORN SONS.
MAKING SURE THAT WE EAT HEALTHY FOODS, EXERCISE, GIVE OUR CHILDREN NAMES THAT WILL UPLIFT THEIR SPIRITS AND MAYBE EVEN CHOOSING DATES THAT WILL BE BENEFICIAL TO THEIR GROWTH ARE THINGS WE CAN DO ONCE WE ARE PREGNANT, BUT NOTHING COMPARES TO PRE-PREGNANCY PREPARATION. TO KEEP THIS BLOG FROM BECOMING TOO LONG I WILL SAVE THAT FOR LATER AND END IT WITH THIS...... WHATEVER YOU CAN DO TO GIVE YOUR CHILD THE BEST START IN LIFE PLEASE DO IT. IF WE BEGIN TO TAKE CHARGE OF THE SMALLEST THINGS WE CAN START TO CHANGE THE WORLD ONE CHILD AT A TIME.
